So, it has been a week since this whole nightmare started. In that time Reuben has had surgery to remove the damaged part of his right lung, repair his diaphragm, liver and the protective covering of his abdomen. They placed a temporary feeding tube that will stay in place while he is on the ventilator.
Thursday he stood with assistance and shuffled to sit in the chair. Friday they put in a trach and moved the ventilator from his mouth to the trach. So, he is still not able to talk but at least he can mouth words! I am definitely NOT a mind reader but we are getting better at communicating. Kind of like interpreting for Rexton. He still has a lot of healing to do and getting him to rest is proving difficult but we will take whatever forward
movement we can make!
I have a personal request for all of you, please remember that everyone has questions and opinions. Remember that there are people who care for all parties involved and that what matters right now is the healing process not the he said / she said talk. I understand the want/need to defend and engage in when you disagree with what is being said but there is a lot to sort out and we just need to have faith that the truth will come out and shed light on the whole situation. Prayers do more than arguments!
***This update was originally shared on Reuben’s CaringBridge site on 11-3-18.***
